YOUR wedding countdown starts here! There may seem like a million things to do, but with the help of our handy checklist, you won’t forget a thing!
12 months to go:
- Have the “budget” discussion – decide how much you want to spend and what kind of wedding you want
- Set the date and book the ceremony and reception venues
- Make sure you take out wedding insurance to cover you if your dress is damaged or the photos don’t turn out
11 months to go:
- Send out “save the date” cards
- Book your photographer and videographer
- Book your caterer and a band or DJ for the reception
10 months to go:
- Choose your bridesmaids, best man, ushers and other attendants
- Decide on the rings
- Book your honeymoon and take out travel insurance
9 months to go:
- Find a florist
- Decide on the menu and drinks
- Choose the bridesmaid’s outfits
8 months to go:
- Discuss readings and music for the ceremony
- Order your invitations, place cards and other stationery
7 months to go:
- Book your transport to the ceremony venue and from the ceremony to the reception, if they are at different locations
- Order your cake
- Choose and order favours for the tables
6 months to go:
- Order the groom and ushers’ outfits
- Choose gifts for your parents and other members of the wedding party, such as bridesmaids and ushers
- Order your rings
- Decide on your order of service
5 months to go:
- Book your hairdresser and make appointments for hair and make-up trials
4 months to go:
- Renew your passports with your new name
- Make sure you’ve booked any inoculations you may need for your honeymoon
- Arrange your hen and stag dos
3 months to go:
- Set up your gift list
- Have your pre-wedding hair cut and colour
- Go for your make-up trial
- If you’re getting married in a church, attend the reading of the banns
- Arrange a hotel for your wedding night, if needed
2 months to go:
- Send our your invitations
- Check the rings are sorted
- Try on your whole outfit and make sure you have everything you need – including jewellery and underwear
- Book any nail or fake tan appointments if necessary
1 month to go:
- Chase up any outstanding RSVPs and confirm the final numbers with your caterers
- Do the seating plan
- Discuss any special requirements with your band or DJ
- Order honeymoon currency
- Confirm the shot list with your photographer
- Wear in your wedding shoes
- Set up wedding rehearsals
The Big Day:
- Ask family and friends to organise that your suitcases are sent to your first night otel; that your wedding dress and groom's suit are returned if need be, or at least have them packed and taken away, which also applies to weddin presents.
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