Tributes paid to 'sweet, sensitive soul' Brian Castle

Brian Castle, 50, was a man who “always felt it important to see the positives in life”. 

During the start of his career, he was a chef at several hotels including the Quay Thistle in Poole, Heathlands Hotel in Bournemouth and the Burley Court Hotel. 

He then went on to work for Parcelforce and the Post Office, becoming a deputy reunion rep, before being elected as a councillor in Muscliff and Strouden Park in May 2023. 

Tributes were paid to the father, husband, brother and son at a full council meeting on October 15. 

The BCP flag flew at half mast on the day of his death (Image: Daily Echo)

Kieron Wilson, ward colleague and friend, led the tributes: “Brian felt that he had made a difference by standing up for the underdog and holding true to his values because Brian was a firm believer in fairness and equality.  

“He believed that if you can do your bit to make a difference, then you should. 

“Brian also involved himself with his local community, often putting himself forward for anything. He was frequently a steward at local carnivals and boot sales. 

“His activeness and inability not to get involved in his community led him to reaching out to myself and Lisa, asking if we could support him in standing for Muscliff and Strouden Park. 

“After just one meeting we knew that he would be a committed member of our community and that he would put residents before politics. 

“He was the definition of a genuine human being. Although only a councillor for a relatively short period of time, he was so proud to be elected and to serve his community.” 

On the day of his death and his funeral, a flag was flown at half-mast outside Bournemouth town hall – something that left his mother “really proud”. 

Mr Castle also loved holidays and music from the 50s, particularly Elvis and Johnny Cash. 

“So much so that Brian sang Elvis to his newly born son Benjamin and to Gemma [his wife] moments after his birth, cradling his tiny son in his arms,” Cllr Wilson added. 

“Benjamin was very much a wanted and long-awaited-for son. It meant everything to Brian to have a son. It is unbelievable how similar they are.  

“Benjamin shares his dad’s big blue eyes, his soft kindness and sense of humour. Benjamin also has the traits of a gentle old soul, the way he strolls with his hands behind his back.” 

Lesley Dedman, chair of BCP Council, added: "He was a great guy and we shall miss him."